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In this podcast I’m going to give you a little history of how I got started in the game and what my particular skills are that I’m bringing to the game and why the game you know: what’s up!

I think the first thing should be understood is as guys we all have the basic instincts to attract the very beautiful female that we look at. I remember: let me give you a little background here I was born in Iran and I left my country when I was six years old do to the government change so my family wanted to get away at the time from the civil war.

Between the age of six and eleven I lived in London, Syria, Turkey, Kuwait, Nebraska and then I moved to California when I was eleven.

So it was interesting because I was moving at such young age, so many different times. I had to learn how to deal with so many different people from different cultures. I didn’t understand it, it was like culture shock. Coming from my culture I was considered cool in my country but uncool in the United States culture.

I remember clearly coming to United States at eleven years old and before coming here I was the kid that was invited to all the parties in school and everybody wanted to be around me and then I come here (USA) and I’m immediately labeled as a nerd.

I was a skinny kid with big glasses and giant head, didn’t speak English. Of course I wanted to be cool but I dressed completely off because it’s one thing if you watch the karate kid movie with Will Smith’s Son and he goes to China, well that was like my story.

So naturally I got beat up and picked on and the white girl was like the new thing for me because I’ve been all around the world but the white girl was like the Prize because here they were with white skin and soft!

Oh my god I just love the white girl.

Of course they wouldn’t be looking at me because I was this burned little Persian guy with giant a head and glasses, couldn’t speak, accent, messed up haircut, but that’s what I wanted.

I remember watching these girls and just trying to figure a way to get with them. Well naturally I got beat up in school a lot and I ended up doing Martial Arts when at eleven after I got beat up very bad.

For me Martial Arts was survival, going to school and get beat up just like the movies, get shoved in the locker, thrown in the garbage, get fucking jumped in the playground playing basketball.

So I would go to Martial Arts and I would stay there five to six hours, I would do my class and stick around watch the instructors and imagine myself being strong and tough and the next day I’d be in school fighting again. That’s how I got good at Martial Arts because my life depended on it and I got better and better.

It’s interesting the way I got started in game was I was doing Brazilian Jiu-jitsu and a guy showed up and he was like

“Oh my god you have to read this book it’s called The Game.”

I was like “Dude.” It was this Hawaiian guy and I was like “I’m not interested in basketball” He said “the guy reminds me so much of you in the book.” I was like “yea, yea whatever.”

Three or four months later the guy comes back and says “I just finished the book, you have to read the book” I said “Hey man I’m not interested in basketball anymore” He said “Basketball?

It’s about getting chicks!”

I was like “Really?” He is all like “yea you have got to read it.” At the time the VH1 Pick-up Artist was airing on TV and I remember flipping through the channel’s and watching Mystery and saying to myself “dude that guy is a joke, I can probably get more girls than him.”

I had been doing well with girls about this time because I had achieved some status in Martial Arts, I was a champion, I had a good body, I was really bold, and I could approach any woman. There was really no skill there, I would just approach and tell them and say Listen I think you’re gorgeous and your hot blah blah blah. Say all kinds of like chumpy activity but you know every once in a while some girl would catch and she would be hot because I wouldn’t approach ugly girls.

So any ways long story short, one Sunday morning I’m watching TV and stretching, I flipped through and I catch the Pick-Up Artist and I was about to flip and I was like “no let me see.” Mystery was talking and he said this thing about a woman earning your attention and I just listened, I remember being in the splits watching:

I was like that’s kind of cool you make sense if you pass your goofy look you make sense.

That night I go to Hooters with my friend and I’ve been thinking about this idea so I was talking to my friend and telling him the idea and the waitress comes up and she goes “Hi can i take your order?” I just turned to her just casually and I said “You know what; you’re going to have to earn that.”

And I turned back and she started just like busting up laughing, and I turned back and she goes like “my name is” I said “Hold on your going to have to earn my attention.” So she is laughing and I’m looking at my friend like what the fuck is this shit because normally I’ll be all flirtatious and shit by the beginning.

So by the end of the night I had made a game out of everything she said like, ridiculously anything she said, I would be like “you have to earn that.” But I had three waitresses around my table laughing, joking and I was like this is cool. So we leave, the next morning I walk to Barnes and Nobles near my house I go to check out the book called “GAME” and I pick it up and I read the first few pages and I’m hooked, I buy that book, can’t put it down three days later I’m done with it.

So I start looking up all kinds of stuff, I started watching all the Pick Up artist videos, I go buy Mystery’s books and I remember when I first read the first page on Mystery’s book I told my girlfriend “ Hey, I want to meet this guy! I want to be his best student and I want to party with him.”

Six months later mystery was doing a boot camp or book signing in San Francisco and I end up going over there to meet him just to see him live and say hey what’s up you know.

Long story short I had a launch with him and he accepted it me as a student and I started studying with him and he started telling me what to read and what to do and shit like that and I was a good student, I loved it.

At some point Mystery says you have got to meet Matador so again I set something up and I go study with Matador and that just blew my mind. I got to see things that really are just preserved for rock stars and at that moment I knew.

Matador turns to me and says “listen you have everything you need to create a rock star’s life style.” He said “I guarantee there’s going to be a time when you won’t have enough time in your life for the different women in your life” and he said “just be ready for that” Of course as a guy who doesn’t want that right?

I started to go hard at work and I studied with Matador a lot and we became really close friends and I became his wing. Sure enough you know let’s move to present time and here I am living the life that I only dreamed of and it continuous to get better, so something that is very important in this background is that growing up i have met a very powerful man I guess there is no other word and his name was Manu Tupou.

He was literally the prince of Fiji, the Island Fiji. He was the Prince of Fiji but he was also a broad way actor and a star and you can look up his name Manu Tupou.

He had been my mentor and I studied with extensively for a year here, theater, but Manu had a way of teaching life and the mind, so he got me started on studying the mind and that was sixteen or seventeen years ago. I was obsessed with reading about the mind and studying stuff. I read everything I got my hands on hypnosis, dianetics, NLP and anything that had to do with mind and I had read and seen everything, still do.

So that was in background too plus the Martial Arts discipline, that combined with that plus understanding game, The structure that Mystery thought me and seen Matador someone who is able to display it at such a high level put it all together and that’s what I’ve been developing as game.

Now I live a pretty amazing life and I teach guys but it’s different because in my journey I also got to study with one of top street hypnotist in the world his name is Vince Lynch from the Head Hacking Crew.

I got to see what my skills can do in street Hypnosis, so the style of game that I teach is a Life Style, It’s understanding the mind, it’s understanding game and it’s having the discipline and the focus of like a martial arts or a Zen master, you put it all together and you get this fascinating character that can do these amazing things with women and life.

It’s not all about women it’s a Life Style. You can apply to business, you can apply to men, I mean you don’t have to be gay but you can, social circles and things like that.

One of the things that I have seen and being in game is that guys go to boot camps and buy tons of lectures and do ‘One on Ones’ and they still don’t get good. It’s interesting because one of the requirements that you have is that you have to be studying from a person who is going through the troubles you’ve been through.

Like I know some guys that would teach game and they’re good at getting girls, but they’ve always been good at getting girls like how the fuck is that guys going to teach some little Indian engineer nerd how to become ALPHA.

I was the fucking little nerd you know what I mean I was the little guy who everybody picked on, I had to evolve, I learned how to fight, I learned about the mind, I learned about the women, Put it all together BOOM.

So a lot of times they face a teacher who is kind like just doesn’t get what it means to be nervous and approach somebody or doesn’t get what it’s like to walk in to a place and know all the right things to say but be frozen solid.

I know what that’s like. Or guys like to have a lot of theory and I think one of the funniest things I ever saw was in one of these camps what do you called Pick-Up camps or whatever, It was break time and I heard these guys down on the table talking and they were like, “oh you know what you need to do and what you need to do and I would have negged her” and I was looking at them said I guarantee you this fool and has not kissed a girl in the last six months but he has all kinds of advice.

It’s like dude I come from a world of fighting of Martial Arts no one is going to listen to a dude who is getting his ass kicked everyday no matter what belt he wears no matter what he looks like. The first requirement is can you do it yourself?

Right? And that’s the problem, is that there’s a bunch of blind people leading the bunch of blind people and it seems like a lot of times people are interested in talking about it more than doing it. Of course it’s to be like oh yea I train Brazilian Jiu-jitsu and then you and you watch UFC with your friends “OH TRIANGLE HIM!!! I WOULD HAVE JUST PUNCHED HIM!!!” Nah dude you wouldn’t have OK, because it’s different being in the ring.

So a lot of times people just want to say “Oh I do martial arts and Jujitsu.” No, no that’s one thing it is another thing getting in the ring right? Same thing with pick up, lot of guys want to be like “you know I studied this that and I know so and so and I know so and so” and “I say Shut the fuck up man!”

Look what’s your statistics? What have you done? Who have you been with? What’s your life look like? What is your life look like, you know what I mean?

Are you just learning game so you can just fucking get that one girl that is always rejecting you? Or are you learning game to like be able to interact with human beings because it’s social dynamics really.

Like I know guys that know all sorts of shit about girls but no guy will respect them, no guy will respect them. You know what I mean it’s like I just thought about one of my previous student, ex-students, tell you all about girls’ right? But in the circle of guys he is a little bitch, but they missed that’s actually part of game.

A nine or a ten, if you’re going to be with a ten, if you’re going to be with a girl that is in the magazines, the girl that is in the show, that’s my girl, that’s my girlfriend, that’s my girls and the girls that are around me.

One thing you have to have is you have to have respect of the fucking guys, So you can just know all about girls and walk up to a group of guys and you’re a chump Right?

So that’s one the big mistakes people make and another mistake people make is that they get a bunch of information and they don’t get good at anything. “Oh yeah I’ve listened to Ross Jeffrey’s and I watch Mystery, blah blah blah blah.”

Can you demonstrate anything? “Oh I’m just kind of like still working on it.”  Nah dude you don’t know shit, ok? And the problem is that they have all this information but no application; it’s like the school mentality right? Let’s memorize everything for the quiz and be able to spit it back, but let’s not be able to do anything about it.

That’s what they do, “Oh yea this is how you neg, how you blah blah” but they can’t apply this shit. It’s like when you ever go to a surgeon, who is like “I passed with all A’s and shit”, so you like “how many brain surgeries have you done? Oh I haven’t really but i am!!!” No, dude dont touch my brain!

It’s the same thing! it’s a technical subjects, if you are going to approach a beautiful women, there is way to approach, there is way to deal with them, there is a way to fucking have them in your life, there is way to do that and if you can’t do it, doesn’t matter what you know you have to actually apply this shit.

So the application in life is missing and that’s a big deal.

Another thing these pickup artists fall into today’s world is they like to like clown on each other and talk bad. They get on-line “Oh, wow.. “ You know what dude? It’s supposed to be a brotherhood supposed to be safe, that’s how it is with my students.

You feel safe, you have to be able to make your mistakes, and you have to know what your vulnerabilities are. It’s not gay. It’s like any artist needs to have a safe place to explore.

And it’s called a Pick-up Artist, there is artistry involved.

So a lot of times they feel like they have to prove themselves, before they are even at the point. Or I have people come through like well “I just want to see how you do” Listen bitch, my life is perfect when it comes to women, my girls wouldn’t even talk to you. I don’t need to prove my self-fool.

You need to prove yourself, you are here to learn. So they are more interested in proving whether their teacher is good enough, instead of learning, it’s like if I had gone to Mystery and Matador and be like “Well, I want to see how good you are.” Dude! It’s irrelevant, I’m there to learn, and I’m there to see what the fuck they have to offer.

So a lot of times their cup is full before they get in, it is and old ZEN teaching, you know what I mean? The guy goes to the master and he is all like I want you teach me wisdom in stuff and the master sits him down for some tea and says “Let’s have some tea first.”

(Master) starts pouring the tea and the cup gets completely full keeps pouring, pouring, pouring, and the student is like “stop! stop! it’s full” and he keeps pouring and he goes “STOP!” and the master stops and he says “you see, just like this cup, your full of knowledge so you have to empty your cup before I can pour anything in.

So that’s one of the things they go to teachers already with their cup full “Oh I already read that, I’ve seen this!” Whatever dude! Empty your cup first before you study with me, come with an open mind, because I’m going to change your whole fucking life, I guarantee you if you study with me your life is going to change.

I know game I’m fucking incredible at it, I’m really really good, anybody who has seen me knows I’ll blow their mind. I’ll show them shit they’ve never seen before and I can do it consistently, but I’m not a dancing clown, you know what I mean, I mean not to fucking going to do a circus act for people, just be around.

Be a student you’ll see it all. So when it comes down to it you have got to ask yourself this honest question: Do you really want to get good? And if you do, how good? And are you willing to pay the price? Money, Time, Energy, are you willing to fail and get up and start again?

Because that’s one of the first listen’s you learn in martial arts, you’re going to get beat up, you have to show up again and you’re going to get beat up, and you’re going to show up again and months after months, year after year you’re going to get beat up and you’re going to show up again.

But that’s the only way you get it, anytime you quit you will never learn it. So study, find qualified teachers to learn from, enjoy the process that’s a big part of it. You have to like what you are doing and you have to have a passion for it and I’ll guarantee you success at the end of that line.

You have to be able to go thru it. Anyways, this was fun stay tuned for next week for the next podcast and it will be some very valuable information in that also.

Alright, till next time, I hope you get some.

 

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